If you've ever had a nightmare, then you know how traumatic they can be. Nightmares can leave you feeling anxious and fearful even when you're awake. But what exactly are nightmares? And why do they happen in the first place?

A nightmare is actually a recurring dream that causes extreme stress and fear in people who experience them frequently (although not everyone who has them experiences them as severely). People who suffer from PTSD or insomnia tend to experience more frequent nightmares than those without any mental health issues. The dreams usually occur at night, but some people also have daytime flashbacks of their trauma during waking hours; these flashbacks may include images or sounds associated with past trauma events.

Understand Your Nightmares

Nightmares are often confused with flashbacks, night terrors and other sleep-related disturbances. A nightmare is not a dream that you can control or change. It is something that happens to you while you're asleep, and it's usually violent or frightening in nature—a traumatic event replaying in your mind's eye, often causing distress when you wake up from it.

A flashback is a vivid memory of something traumatic that happened in the past and may cause intense feelings of fear, horror or painful emotions similar to those experienced during the actual event itself. Flashbacks may include sights, sounds or smells related to the original incident (often including strong emotions such as panic). They can last for seconds or minutes at a time but usually go away quickly on their own once they begin occurring more frequently over time.Night terrors are different than nightmares because they occur during deep sleep stages instead of REM (rapid eye movement) stage 3/4 which occurs throughout most of our sleeping hours while REM only takes place during the second half hour before we wake up again; this means those who experience them don't remember having them afterwards either so we don't know if these are bad dreams too! Also unlike nightmares which tend to be caused by stress issues within one's life like PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder), these episodes have no apparent triggers other than being tired when staying up late studying late into

Learn to Track and Identify Patterns

As you begin to notice recurring themes, one of the most important things that you can do is learn to identify what these patterns are. Patterns are usually obvious when you look for them, but it can be difficult to recognize them if you're not looking for them in the first place. Once again, this is why having someone else present during your nightmare recovery process can be so important—they'll be able to help identify patterns that you may miss on your own.

Once you've identified a pattern, it's time to use this information as a tool in understanding your nightmares and trauma more fully. For example: If your nightmare involves being chased by an unknown assailant through dark alleyways where no one else seems aware of your plight and there's no way out except through death or capture, then perhaps this represents something about how trapped or isolated from others' sympathy/understanding/protection (etc.) feels during post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) episodes; perhaps it also represents how running away from danger felt during childhood abuse/neglect situations? The answer might come clearer with some analysis and context around where the pattern comes from; there could even be other people who've experienced similar feelings or events in their lives."

Find a Familiar Feeling You Can Hold Onto

It may seem like a small thing, but finding something that you can hold onto during your nightmare will help you to feel safe and secure. This could be a stuffed animal or blanket, it could be a song or movie you love, it could even be your favorite food that reminds you of home and happy times. The point here is to find something that will help allay the fear caused by the nightmare—something familiar, comforting and cheery.

Make it a Habit to Talk About Nightmares

Talking about your nightmares can help you process them, feel less alone, and get a sense of perspective.

Talking about your nightmares can also help you feel less afraid, ashamed, and crazy.

Don't Try to Suppress Nightmares

In many cases, nightmares can be a sign that your mind and body are trying to process trauma. They can help you understand the emotions you felt during the traumatic event, which may help you heal.

It's important not to suppress or avoid your nightmares because they're often a way of working through painful memories and emotions. Nightmares are common in people with PTSD, and most people who experience them feel better after they wake up from one.

Share Your Nightmare Story

Sharing your nightmare story is important. It can help you feel less alone and isolated, which is especially helpful if you don't have anyone in your life who understands what you're going through.

Talking about nightmares can also help you to make sense of them, and give them a context that they were missing before. It's like when someone has a bad dream, they wake up with no memory of the details except for their fear of whatever was chasing them in their dreams—and it feels like the dream was all just one big blur with no rhyme or reason behind it. As soon as they tell someone else about it though, some semblance of order comes back into play: "Okay, so I had this dream where there was this monster chasing me..." Or even better: "Oh yeah! That happened last night! I guess now I know why." This helps people feel less crazy—and trust us when we say that everyone needs that reassurance at times like these!

Practice Self-Care

While you may have been told that it's important to take care of yourself, it can be difficult to know how to do this. Some people think of self-care as a way of treating themselves when they've done something well or deserve a reward; others might see it as an act of selfishness. It's neither: Self-care is about being there for yourself, and making sure that you're doing all that you can to survive and thrive in the world. When we're in new situations and experiencing life events we didn't expect, our ability to cope with stress goes down and our risk for PTSD goes up. This means that if you're trying to recover from trauma, it's essential that you make sure your mental health is intact by taking steps like these:

  • Setting aside time each day (even just 5 minutes) where you can go through some breathing exercises or meditation techniques
  • Finding ways outside of work or school (such as volunteering) where your actions are helping other people achieve their goals rather than just getting things done yourself
  • Learning how much downtime is healthy for someone who's recovering from trauma

By forming a routine around checking in with yourself, you are better able to recognize your triggers, understand your feelings, and be ready to take on anything life throws at you.

Self-care is an important part of recovering from trauma because it helps you to take care of your physical, mental, and emotional health. By forming a routine around checking in with yourself every day, you are better able to recognize your triggers, understand your feelings, and be ready to take on anything life throws at you.

When we talk about nightmares as traumatic events, it is important that we understand how they can affect our lives after they happen. Nightmares often cause people who suffer from them to develop post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), which can lead them down a long path of self-destructive behaviors and unhealthy habits. Nightmares are not only unpleasant for those who experience them but can also have negative effects on their loved ones as well as friends or coworkers.


It's okay to have nightmares when you're dealing with trauma. They are a normal part of the healing process and can help bring you closer to resolving your problems. However, if they become too frequent or severe, it may be worth consulting a therapist or other professional for additional support. The best way to deal with nightmares is to acknowledge that they are happening, try not to fight them, and give yourself time afterwards so that they don't overwhelm your life too much.